I have a BF, i kissed another guy, i liked it.

gurlYp0ps · 10-01-2009, 05:31 PM

During a party, i was a little drunk. tipsy. and i met a guy, we kissed.
galit kasi ako sa BF ko during that time. One time ko lang ginawa yun, pero parang walang guilt feeling kasi i liked it.

Babaero din kasi yung BF ko dati. malandi siya.

PL girl members, any similar stories?

byter · 10-02-2009, 12:08 PM

do you honestly love your BF? if you like the other guy's kiss, then you have to re-evaluate your feelings. it will be a waste of time if you will continue having relationship to guy you don't love.

dangeo · 10-02-2009, 11:09 PM

kung ako yung BF mo, wag mong ipaalam sakin na humalik ka sa ibang lalake. tapos nagustuhan mo pa. tsktsk. over na tayo.

hahaha, kapal.

sympre assuming yan na one-woman man ako.
pero kapag ako nga yung bf na sinasabi mo, yung malandi, na flirty.
baka it wudn't hurt that much kpg nalaman kong humalik ka sa iba.
ang matatamaan, yung pride ko. haha. guy stuff.

parang, (xet! may humalik na ibang lalake sa gf ko! badtrip yun ah!)

ganun.

miranda(",) · 10-02-2009, 11:13 PM

naku, diko kayang gawin yun sis!
i just couldn't imagine doing it dahil galit ako sa bf ko.

huwag mo na lang ulitin sana. pero wag ka na rin mag-regret about your action, plus dont justify it. kasi ginusto mo yung nangyari and i think, that's normal.

Kahit ganu pa natin kamahal ang mga hubby or bf natin, may nagagawa pa rin tayong kakaiba or kabaliwan. hehe.
basta mag-decide ka na kung gusto mo tlg sa boyfriend, and if oo, stay! and try not doing that again.

alamin mo din kung worth keeping tlg bf mo, parang wala ka kasing tiwala sa kanya. eh, trust is very much important sa relationship. parang hindi maganda magmahal kapag walang tiwala. naks.

CoCo · 03-06-2010, 12:10 PM

advice lng: wag magpapahuli...wag aamin..

simone12vlai · 03-06-2010, 03:04 PM

hhhmm.. well, kht babaero bf mu before, it doesn't mean na yung can play around as well...

It is not good for a girl like you to be with other guy... this only means that you also like him. It may not be intentional that you kissed him but remember that a drunk person never tell lies. (sabi nila"lumalakas daw ang loob") Your boyfriend may not know it but as time comes by he will discover this mess. I think you will have to evaluate your current situation with your boyfriend... ask yourself "am I still in love with him?".

1. Guilty?
I guess u dont want to feel guilty forever, sakit sa ulo non.. Kung aamin ka, it will eat away at you until you tell him. If you dont, then you shouldnt be with your boyfriend. If it meant nothing, then you have nothing to hide. Hopefully your boyfriend can forgive you, but if not then you can't blame him, magaaway tlg kau and ur relationship might be over for him - you made a choice to cheat and you have to stick by it..

Alam mu nmn ang mga guys kht playful yan, most likely they will be pissed, 'pag nalaman nila may k-flirt ang gf nila.. lalo na pagnalaman nila sa iba.. aits!! They feel even more betrayed!!

2. On the other way around, you may keep it to yourself, and NEVER do it again. alam na alam mu Telling him will cause many problems between you two.

As I said, evaluate your situation... do u still love him? or u like the other man?

eicah · 03-06-2010, 04:12 PM

i went through a similar situation as you did ghurl..i met a guy at this party too,, but then i forgot his name.. haha i was too tipsy to remember his name.. although my friends were telling me that i indeed kissed a random guy during that particular night.. i also had a bf that time.. i was also angry at him.. we had a little fight earlier that night..that's why me and my friends went to party..

~ i never told my boyfriend that time about it though.. i just couldn't..

~ well.. advice :: never go drinking when your Sad, And Angry.. coz the more you are at risk in getting drunk easily and the more prone you are in doing impulsive actions without even thinking of the consequences of it.., and next time you should limit your alcohol intake.., next time you get angry go karaoke instead.. it's a better way to bring out your pent up anger.. it might sound corny and all, but it works.. and if you are with your friends.. it'll be soo much fun.. trust me.. =)

calamityz · 03-12-2010, 03:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CoCo

advice lng: wag magpapahuli...wag aamin..

mga babae nga naman., tsktsk. niloloko nyo lang kaming mga lalake.

10-01-2009, 05:31 PM	#1
gurlYp0ps Newbie Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Philippines Posts: 15 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	I have a BF, i kissed another guy, i liked it. During a party, i was a little drunk. tipsy. and i met a guy, we kissed. galit kasi ako sa BF ko during that time. One time ko lang ginawa yun, pero parang walang guilt feeling kasi i liked it. Babaero din kasi yung BF ko dati. malandi siya. PL girl members, any similar stories?

10-02-2009, 12:08 PM	#2
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10-02-2009, 11:09 PM	#3
dangeo Join Date: May 2009 Location: Baguio City Posts: 121 Thanks: 1 Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts	kung ako yung BF mo, wag mong ipaalam sakin na humalik ka sa ibang lalake. tapos nagustuhan mo pa. tsktsk. over na tayo. hahaha, kapal. sympre assuming yan na one-woman man ako. pero kapag ako nga yung bf na sinasabi mo, yung malandi, na flirty. baka it wudn't hurt that much kpg nalaman kong humalik ka sa iba. ang matatamaan, yung pride ko. haha. guy stuff. parang, (xet! may humalik na ibang lalake sa gf ko! badtrip yun ah!) ganun.

10-02-2009, 11:13 PM	#4
miranda(",) Newbie Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Bohol Posts: 22 Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	naku, diko kayang gawin yun sis! i just couldn't imagine doing it dahil galit ako sa bf ko. huwag mo na lang ulitin sana. pero wag ka na rin mag-regret about your action, plus dont justify it. kasi ginusto mo yung nangyari and i think, that's normal. Kahit ganu pa natin kamahal ang mga hubby or bf natin, may nagagawa pa rin tayong kakaiba or kabaliwan. hehe. basta mag-decide ka na kung gusto mo tlg sa boyfriend, and if oo, stay! and try not doing that again. alamin mo din kung worth keeping tlg bf mo, parang wala ka kasing tiwala sa kanya. eh, trust is very much important sa relationship. parang hindi maganda magmahal kapag walang tiwala. naks.

03-06-2010, 12:10 PM	#5
CoCo Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: London Posts: 36 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	advice lng: wag magpapahuli...wag aamin..

03-06-2010, 03:04 PM	#6
simone12vlai Newbie Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: MAKATI Posts: 10 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	hhhmm.. well, kht babaero bf mu before, it doesn't mean na yung can play around as well... It is not good for a girl like you to be with other guy... this only means that you also like him. It may not be intentional that you kissed him but remember that a drunk person never tell lies. (sabi nila"lumalakas daw ang loob") Your boyfriend may not know it but as time comes by he will discover this mess. I think you will have to evaluate your current situation with your boyfriend... ask yourself "am I still in love with him?". 1. Guilty? I guess u dont want to feel guilty forever, sakit sa ulo non.. Kung aamin ka, it will eat away at you until you tell him. If you dont, then you shouldnt be with your boyfriend. If it meant nothing, then you have nothing to hide. Hopefully your boyfriend can forgive you, but if not then you can't blame him, magaaway tlg kau and ur relationship might be over for him - you made a choice to cheat and you have to stick by it.. Alam mu nmn ang mga guys kht playful yan, most likely they will be pissed, 'pag nalaman nila may k-flirt ang gf nila.. lalo na pagnalaman nila sa iba.. aits!! They feel even more betrayed!! 2. On the other way around, you may keep it to yourself, and NEVER do it again. alam na alam mu Telling him will cause many problems between you two. As I said, evaluate your situation... do u still love him? or u like the other man?

03-06-2010, 04:12 PM	#7
eicah Newbie Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: cainta, rizal Posts: 7 Thanks: 2 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	i went through a similar situation as you did ghurl..i met a guy at this party too,, but then i forgot his name.. haha i was too tipsy to remember his name.. although my friends were telling me that i indeed kissed a random guy during that particular night.. i also had a bf that time.. i was also angry at him.. we had a little fight earlier that night..that's why me and my friends went to party.. ~ i never told my boyfriend that time about it though.. i just couldn't.. ~ well.. advice :: never go drinking when your Sad, And Angry.. coz the more you are at risk in getting drunk easily and the more prone you are in doing impulsive actions without even thinking of the consequences of it.., and next time you should limit your alcohol intake.., next time you get angry go karaoke instead.. it's a better way to bring out your pent up anger.. it might sound corny and all, but it works.. and if you are with your friends.. it'll be soo much fun.. trust me.. =)